Hostels can literally be the highlight of your trip — full of adventures and, if you're lucky, a few lasting friendships. But the idea of shared dorms packed with bunk beds and people you don't know can feel pretty uncomfortable at first. The truth? It's all about knowing how to make the most of the hostel experience.

This guide will walk you through every tip you should know before booking your first hostel. By the end of it, you'll basically be a hostel pro. Promise.

Types of hostels & how to pick the right one

Different hostel styles

First thing to know: not all hostels are the same. Different hostels are built for different vibes — and that's the catch. The best hostel is the one that matches your expectations and your mood for that trip. Feeling like partying all night? Party hostel. On a tight budget? Budget hostel. Looking for something quieter? Neither of those.

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Party hostels
Themed nights, pub crawls, rooftop DJs. Built for meeting strangers and staying up late.
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Budget hostels
Cheapest rates, biggest dorms. Not for first-timers — try a 6-bed before you try a 20-bed.
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Adventure hostels
Based near trails, surf, crags. Gear storage, early breakfasts, tour desks built in.
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Youth hostels
Classic backpacker energy. Usually the widest age range, 18–35 crowd dominates.
Luxury / "poshtel"
Private pods, memory foam, good coffee. Hostel price ceiling — hotel-ish experience.
Themed hostels
Surf, art, yoga, film, wine. Narrow audience, deeper conversations.

There's an option for almost everyone, and you can have a great time in any of them — as long as you're honest with yourself about your overall mood for the trip. Now, how to pick the right one:

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Read recent reviews
Don't just glance at the overall rating. Dig into comments from the last 3 months. A hostel that was amazing two years ago may not be the same today. Look for cleanliness, security, and vibe.
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Location > cheaper rate
A $5 saving in the middle of nowhere isn't a saving once you add taxis. Downtown-adjacent hostels are almost always worth the premium.
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Match your vibe
This is the single biggest factor. Party hostel when you want quiet = misery. Quiet hostel when you want to meet people = also misery. Book to the mood.
The best hostel isn't the cheapest, or the highest-rated. It's the one whose vibe matches your trip.

Tips for making dorm life less stressful

Hostel dorm beds

So, you finally checked in and picked your bunk. Welcome to hostel life. Shared spaces can be tricky, but with a little mindfulness you'll be just fine. The basics are mostly about respecting other people — especially around bedtime.

  1. Be considerate with lights & sound
    Nobody likes the person who flips the lights on at 3am or takes loud calls while others sleep. Early riser? Pack your things the night before. Night owl? Earphones in, phone brightness down.
  2. Pack an eye mask & earplugs
    You never know when you'll share a room with a snorer or a group coming back late. Non-negotiable gear.
  3. Keep your bunk tidy
    A messy bunk makes life harder for everyone — including you. Packing cubes save time and space. Lock valuables up.
  4. Shower etiquette matters
    Bring your own towel (microfiber dries fastest). Don't take forever — people are queuing outside. Clean up. Put clothes on before you leave the stall.

Dorm life is about balance. Respect the space, embrace the experience, and you'll walk away with far more than just a cheap bed.

Staying safe and keeping your stuff secure

Hostel locker and storage

Hostels are fun and social, but sharing space with strangers means safety comes first. Don't overstress about it — just be smart and you'll be good.

  1. Always lock up your valuables
    Most hostels have lockers but expect you to bring your own padlock. If there are no lockers, keep passport, cards, and electronics close while you sleep — inside your pillowcase works.
  2. Trust your gut
    If something feels off, it probably is. Most travelers are great. It's still okay to step away from sketchy situations without explaining yourself to anyone.
  3. Stick to well-reviewed hostels
    The extra $3 a night for a place with hundreds of recent positive reviews is the cheapest insurance you'll ever buy.
  4. Don't overshare your plans
    Bonding is great, but you don't need to tell everyone where you keep your stuff or which bus you're taking tomorrow. A little privacy goes a long way.
⚠ Particularly for solo female travelers
Watch your drink. Always.

At hostel bars, pub crawls, and wherever else — don't leave drinks unattended, and pace yourself. Getting too wasted somewhere you don't know well isn't worth the story. This applies to everyone, but disproportionately protects women.

Tips for making friends (even if you're shy)

Travelers chatting in a hostel common area

One of the best things about hostels is how easy it is to meet people. Even if you're the kind of person who avoids small talk at all costs, you'll find conversations happen naturally in the right setting.

  1. Live in the common areas
    Lounges, rooftop terraces, the kitchen. Hanging out with a book or a cup of coffee is often enough to strike up a conversation with someone passing by.
  2. Eat where other people eat
    Shared kitchens are the single best friend-making venue in a hostel. Cooking at the same time as others = automatic conversation. Offer a taste of what you're making. Done.
  3. Sign up for one hostel event
    Walking tours, group dinners, pub crawls — the built-in icebreaker is the whole point. You don't have to stay out late. Just showing up is enough.
◆ Bring your tribe with you

Don't arrive as strangers — arrive as a room.

Trippii matches you with travelers who share your vibe before you even book. When the match is right, you can book a whole hostel room together — safer, more comfortable, and especially great for shy travelers who feel more integrated when they're not walking in cold.

Just enjoy the hostel experience

Hostel rooftop hangout

Here's the honest secret: you've got to show up open. If you walk into a hostel with the mindset "I'm here to save money and that's it," you'll probably have a bad time. The real hostel vibe isn't the $12 bed — it's the spontaneous adventures, the unexpected friendships, and the stories you'll tell for years.

Hostels can be the highlight of your trip. Pick the right one. Pack smart. Go in with an open mind. Thank us later.

And if this guide was useful — or if there's a hostel-life trick we missed — drop a comment. download the app, follow along on Instagram @trippiiapp, and get ready to find your travel tribe.

About the author

Anna Carolina Mendonça Mello Bastos

Writer, traveler, and long-time remote worker based between Lisbon and São Paulo. Writes for Trippii about nomad culture, underrated coastal towns, and the rituals that make long-term travel sustainable.